Pat has been having a really good time getting out and about in Lome in a way I've never done. He goes running many mornings and sees a lot of the city that way. He also strikes up quite a bit of conversations with random people on the street. He has found pick-up basketball games to play in and has played soccer and basketball for Peace Corps teams comprised of a mixture of staff and volunteers (and some tangentially related people - boyfriends, siblings, etc. - who are good at the game being played).
He and I have been playing tennis at the ambassador's - it really is kind of like our private club - a tennis court and a pool mostly just for us. My tennis is not good but it's not as bad as I would have thought it would be and we're basically just doing it for fun. It will be hard for him to leave but we're not thinking about that right now.
So life goes on in Togo - the ups and the downs. Some days I really like it and other days it just seems so dysfunctional it's maddening. You really have to learn to go with the flow in a place like this. It's not like things have to be done all in a rush but, as a dedicated New Yorker, it's hard for me to get out of that mentality that everything should work and run on time. They're digging up the road outside of our office (which is dirt) and we've heard they're going to replace it with dirt to let it settle for 2 YEARS before they pave it. It's so hard for me to conceptualize living like that for that length of time but I'll be gone before it's done, apparently.
So next time, pictures of Iceland.
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